OUR GUIDELINES

Welcome to our sex-positive erotic rave, KINKONISM, a space designed to celebrate the richness of human sexuality, foster self-discovery, and encourage respectful, mindful interactions. Here, we invite you to freely explore your desires and boundaries, whether through dance, experimentation, creativity, or intimate connections. Whether you're here to dance, socialize, play, or simply observe, your presence is valued. To create a safe and inclusive environment for everyone, we have established some guidelines to ensure a positive experience. We believe in treating each other with respect and awareness throughout the night, whether you're on the dancefloor, at the bar, in the chill lounge, or in the play spaces. If you encounter any behavior that violates these guidelines, please promptly notify our security team or our on-site Care Team.

SEX-POSITIVE EROTIC RAVE ETIQUETTE – BE AWESOME TO ONE ANOTHER

Respect Yourself and Others

Honor your own boundaries and desires. Attend this event to stay true to yourself and your comfort level. If you ever feel uneasy, contact our Care Team for support.

Treat others with respect and sensitivity. Always be mindful of their boundaries and consent when engaging physically or emotionally.

Unwanted advances or interactions are never acceptable. Always respect the freedom of others to decline.

Respect the venue. Keep it clean and adhere to the house rules.

Enthusiastic Consent

Embrace the enthusiastic consent model, where a clear and enthusiastic "Yes!" is required for any intimate engagement.

Understand that "No" always means "No," and "Maybe" is equivalent to a "No."

Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Always prioritize open communication, respect, and safety.

Respect Gender and Sexual Orientation

Acknowledge the diverse spectrum of gender roles and sexual orientations within our community.

Avoid making assumptions about others' identities or preferences.

Always ask for clarification when necessary.

Nonconsensual self-pleasure

Nonconsensual self-pleasure is strictly prohibited.

Public self-pleasure requires consent from others.

Respect boundaries, non-consenting behavior results in removal and you will be banned from future events.

No Photos or Videos

NO private photography or video. Even at the photobooth or in the toilets.

Keep your phone stashed away.

Our official photographers/videographers will be identified and always ask for your consent before recording. Feel free to say NO at any time.

The photos/videos will be shared in the member section of our website and might appear on social media. You can always revoke your consent via email.

Safe Play and Safe Word

Play areas are meant for play, not conversations.

Do not interrupt ongoing scenes without permission.

Prioritize safety in all activities

Make informed decisions, and if you lack information, decline.

Our general safe word is "Mayday." If it's used and ignored, intervene, or seek assistance from a third party.

No Touching Without Consent

While many attendees may enjoy exhibitionism, remember the golden rule: look but don't touch without explicit permission.

Keep your hands to yourself unless you've received explicit, enthusiastic consent.

Non-consensual touching is strictly prohibited and will result in removal from the event, and you will be banned from future events.

Shared Spaces

Be considerate in shared play areas. Avoid monopolizing equipment if others are waiting.

Cleaning and sanitizing equipment after use is mandatory. Supplies are provided; please use them.

Party Responsibly

Avoid excessive intoxication, which can impair judgment and negatively impact others' experiences.

Engage in games or experiments sober and communicate openly with partners about substance use.

Inappropriate behavior resulting from intoxication may result in exclusion from future events.

Exclusion

Guests who disregard boundaries, lack tact, or fail to adhere to our guidelines will be promptly removed from the event.

We hope these guidelines help you embrace a positive and respectful experience at our sex-positive erotic rave. Let's create memorable connections and celebrate the beauty of human connection together.