our guidelines are NON-negotiable
BE AWESOME TO ONE ANOTHER
To help ensure an awesome experience for all, we put together some guidelines we believe should be standard behavior, not just at s3x-positive events but in all walks of life.
Whether dancing, experimenting, or observing, prioritize respect and awareness in every action. When in doubt, ask yourself, “Am I being awesome to others?” If not, you should rethink your actions; otherwise, it might lead to removal from the event.
Feeling unsafe due to someone’s behavior? Report issues to our Care Angels or a member of our crew (identified with badges) immediately. Whether you’re new to the scene or an experienced adventurer, come informed, ready to contribute, and let’s make it a night filled with positivity and s3xy debauchery.
serious talk now
what is consent?
Consent is an enthusiastic and clear yes — not just permission, but active agreement. Your body is yours. So is everyone else’s.
No touch without consent — Not a hug, not a touch on the shoulder, not anything. Ask first, every time. It’s that simple.
Everyone has different ways of saying yes and no, but consent means nothing less than an enthusiastic:
YES!
Consent is “CRISP”
C — Considered
Consent happens in a world shaped by power dynamics, systemic racism, and oppression. We can’t fully erase those forces, but we can acknowledge them and factor them in when deciding whether to give or withhold consent.
R — Reversible
You can change your mind at any time. A yes now doesn’t mean yes forever.
I – Informed
You need to know what you’re agreeing to. No surprises.
S — Specific
Yes to one thing isn’t yes to everything.
P — Participatory
Consent isn’t handed down — it’s built together. Everyone involved has an equal voice in what happens with and to their body.
let’s talk about our boundaries
making things crystal clear
WHAT’S NOT ALLOWED?
- Non consensual touching of any kind (every touch counts!)
- Non consensual solo wanking
- Having s3x in the bathrooms
- Specific kinks: blood, urine, feces
- Open use of illegal substances
- Creepy or invasive behavior
- Invading other people’s play and play spaces
- Taking photos with your phone even at the photo booth or in the toilets
- Taking your phone out (exception: if you want to pay)
- This list is not exhaustive, if you have a question, ask an Angel or a member of our crew
DISRESPECTING ANY OF OUR GUIDELINES or boundaries CAN RESULT IN removal FROM THE event
please read
our PHOTO POLICY
NO private photography or video. Even at the photobooth or in the toilets.
The photos/videos will be shared in the member section of our website and might appear on social media. You can always revoke your consent via email.
Keep your phone stashed away.
Our official photographers/videographers will be identified and always ask for your consent before recording. Feel free to say NO at any time.
If you are caught taking photos you will be asked to delete the photos and might be asked to leave.
get familiar with
our guidelines
Honor your own boundaries and desires. Attend this event to stay true to yourself and your comfort level. If you ever feel uneasy, contact our Care Angels for support. Treat others with respect and sensitivity. Always be mindful of their boundaries and consent when engaging physically or emotionally.
Unwanted advances or interactions are never acceptable. Always respect the freedom of others to decline. Respect the venue. Keep it clean and adhere to the guidelines.
Embrace the enthusiastic consent model, where a clear and enthusiastic “YES!” is required for any intimate engagement.
Understand that “NO” always means “NO,” and “MAYBE” is also a “NO.”
Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Always prioritize open communication, respect, and safety.
Nonconsensual self-pleasure is strictly prohibited.
Public self-pleasure requires consent from others.
Respect boundaries, non-consenting behavior results in removal and you will be banned from future events.
Be considerate in shared play areas. Avoid monopolizing equipment if others are waiting.
Cleaning and sanitizing equipment after use is mandatory. Supplies are provided; please use them.
Avoid excessive intoxication, which can impair judgment and negatively impact others’ experiences.
Engage in play or experiments sufficiently sober. Always communicate openly with play partners about substance use.
Inappropriate behavior resulting from intoxication may result in exclusion from future events.
Acknowledge the diverse spectrum of gender roles and s3xual orientations within our community.
Avoid making assumptions about others’ identities or preferences.
Always ask for clarification when in doubt.
Play areas are meant for play, not conversations.
Do not interrupt ongoing scenes without permission.
Prioritize safety in all activities
Make informed decisions, and if you lack information, decline.
Guests who disregard boundaries, lack tact, or fail to adhere to our guidelines will be promptly removed from the event.
